There are many kinds of good, and how we approach them tells a lot about us as people. Take 'Agile' for software developers. There are (at least) three different ways to approach this particular kind of good: One way is to try to adopt the appearance of Agile because "it looks good" or perhaps it would be embarrassing to admit we are not. If we are avoiding the appearance of being non-Agile, then our efforts are likely to fail. Agile development is about engagement, yet maintaining appearance is mostly about compliance (or obligation). "Seeming" without first "becoming" is a kind of misrepresentation, and can strain relationships that would work more smoothly on a basis of trust. One may want to be recognized as already having the kind of good that Agile represents. This is more legitimate, because most developers have teamed up on tough problems, written unit tests, collaborated with teammates, or worked in short time boxes of a ...