The Curiosity Space

Sometimes we get what we expect. The reactions to that? Either satisfaction or no real reaction at all. When I put my bread in the toaster and it toasts it according to the settings, I don't throw a party. After all, that's what the toaster is for. The water tap dispenses water, just like always, and that's what I expected. I'm glad for toast and water, but it's not something that will occupy a lot of my thoughts. If I put in bread and got back a waffle, that would be surprising. I would spend more of my day on that. Likewise, if I put in bread and received a flood of fleeing insects, that would be surprising. Which brings us to the point: sometimes what we get is different from what we expect. We can feel that as delight sometimes, because our results were far better than we expected. Other times we feel it as disappointment. If we judge this space, we will feel it as frustration, failure, embarrassment. even disrespect and loss of control. We c...